I say...
A friendship is a living entity , it grows. And like anything that grows, it evolves. If not, it indicates emotional stagnation on the part of the people involved i guess.
An interaction and involvement with our friends , with our loved ones, say in the college life, which was full of fun and a celebration of hell number of things.
As time passes, our needs change. Our priorities change, our demands change. Our demands from that friendship will now include greater acceptance of the choices we make like job, partners, life style more validation of who I am, feeling of WE and a deeper understanding of our mutual needs and motivations, a gentle approach to our mistakes and wider arms to hug with us.It makes sense to rework a friendship, but this is a two way street. Some people don't like it because it involves change of one belief.
It happens with me all the time.
Still, I say a friendship is all about one's need and that will always continue to bloom
Cheers! :)
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